and I’m  not ruining it, because the word of the Lord has taught me not to engage myself in pointless debacles. Plus the fact that I’m already 34 should ring a bell. Whatever it is that people don’t understand about me, should just be passing, what they say is irrelevant and does not really identify me because -they don’t know my mother! It’s more Christian not to engage in such pointless exchanges.

In this life, and as a Christian, I learned to sense people; Is this person a trouble maker, does this person likes to have the last say, is this person trouble hungry, does this person really has a deep relationship with Christ? These questions will save you from too much heartaches, not because you’re being a snob or anything, but you now know the things that makes you lose your peace -like my rent! LOL! And you now know how to avoid putting so many undue stress on your head.

Recently, I learned something about someone, from someone who I would think the last person to tell me. Before this, I prayed (I’m a prayer warrior who lapses from time to time, go figure!) and asked Him about this person; in it, I said, Lord please help me to discern, reveal to me. And He did.  I wasn’t at all surprised, it got me amused, but wasn’t impressed about the things I learned. And it answered my prayer.

What am I saying? I guess, what I mean is, not everyone who speaks eloquently, and smiles beautifully can be trusted or admired, because deep down inside, there’s a monster waiting to dash on someone. As I was always and have been taught by my pastors; be sensitive to the Spirit. Which, I would unintentionally fail. Woe is me!

I’ve been on this road before, and I know the type of person. But I’m not going that direction anymore. Well, I didn’t really remove anyone from my friend’s list, so…haha!

16th January, 2010 | Relationships